Morrisss

The others in your eyes are actually yourself. Every judgment you make about others' behavior reflects your internal experience patterns and psychological projections. When you compare others' actions to your expectations, the evaluations that result do not reveal the true nature of the other person, but rather how you perceive the world. Conversely, when others evaluate you, what they say is only a reflection of their own cognition and perspective.

The biggest lie in this world is: you can't do it. Those dismissals, negations, and doubts should not stop us from moving forward. We need to clearly understand our direction, then keep running. We are not afraid of failure, nor of defamation. On our own path, we forge ahead bravely. No matter how many detours your youth has, you can only walk them yourself. Only by passing through that fog can you truly be brave. The future you want is something only you can know how to break free from the shackles. This is something only you can do. Life only happens once. Step boldly toward your goal!

Even if you make mistakes, don't just magnify them blindly. Life is about taking responsibility for yourself. This is my lesson: I will bear the consequences, learn to be forgiving of myself, and if I can't let go and find peace, I will try again. Use new, positive feelings to overwrite unhappy memories. Living might just be about having the courage to start over repeatedly, and in the process, becoming stronger and stronger.

In psychology, when someone faces your questioning, they don't respond with patience and explanation, but with rage and evasion. So, most likely, it's what you guessed—the person, when exposed, will attack the one who exposes them to conceal their own emotions. Therefore, when you question someone and they respond with rage and evasiveness, that's the answer.

In life, true clarity is: 1. Don't force understanding, don't overestimate empathy, and don't explain to the wrong people. 2. Those who understand you don't need to be told, those who don't understand don't need to be told, and unrelated people are too lazy to explain. 3. Let go of the obsession with "being understood" to live freely and calmly.

The three main drives of human nature: Food: survival instinct, Sex: reproduction and desire, Love: connection, belonging, meaning.
The three main resistances of human nature: Ignorance: lack of knowledge, inability to distinguish true from false, Fear: self-protection of the emotional system, Inertia: resistance to energy and the cost of change.
The three main confusions of human nature: Evil: mistaking destruction, control, and revenge for strength, Power: equating dominance over others with meaning, Profit: treating instrumental gains as the ultimate goal.

Once a person learns to regularly observe themselves, their feelings and sensations, and their words and actions, they have already begun to unlock the greatest divinity and spirituality within themselves.

Whoever wants to become a true person must be a rebel. Being yourself in a world that constantly tries to change you is the greatest achievement. Your kindness must have a bit of edge; otherwise, it's worth nothing. Others' opinions of us cannot change who we truly are. I must stay away from others' judgments; I must be myself.

How are those foolish people formed? They are also called the "basic group," and it's not an intelligence issue but a state shaped by structural forces. It stems from long-term institutional arrangements, cultural domestication, and power relations, gradually causing individuals to lose subjectivity: they do not judge, question, or take responsibility, only learn to obey. In this state, oppression is seen as order, sacrifice is justified as tradition, and "it's always been like this" becomes the very legitimacy. Institutions devour individuals, the strong consume the weak, and abstract moral d

Always treat social relationships, physical health, salary income, and family life as your own privacy. When chatting with others, you can talk about the weather, delicious food, gossip, Putin's love life, how unreliable Trump is, but never about yourself. The highest level of social interaction: enthusiastic, generous, and knowing nothing about the other person. For acquaintances, knowing their name is enough, sometimes only their online nickname.

Why do many arguments end without resolution, yet time seems to pass quickly? The reason why many disputes are chaotic is not because people lack understanding of reason, but because they do not judge issues based on "right and wrong." For them, right and wrong depend entirely on stance: what benefits me is right, what harms me is wrong; those on my side are good people, and those on the other side are bad people. This "I" can expand at any time, from individuals, families, and groups to nations, states, and camps, so evaluations are no longer based on the actions themselves but solely on who

Someone who has helped you is more likely to stay with you for a lifetime. Conversely, those you've helped often turn against you—that's the complexity of human nature, there's no way around it.

Do not easily provoke those who are solitary and silent. Humans are social animals, accustomed to relying on groups for survival; those who dare to remain independent from the crowd for a long time at least possess the courage and ability to face everything alone. Such people are often extremely strong internally, a strength that exceeds the tolerance of ordinary people. Their ability to endure loneliness that others find unbearable indicates a very high level of resilience. Resilience is like a compressed spring; it has its limits. Once pushed to the critical point, the rebound can be extraor

Is there a way in psychology to quickly change a person? When you make the other person feel that you don't want to change them, true change begins to happen. This is not a technique; it's a shift in stance. From "you're wrong, I want to make you right" to "I see you, I'm here with you." They finally no longer need to spend energy resisting you, but can start to direct that energy toward self-awareness. At this moment, they feel love. Only when a person feels loved can genuine transformation occur. However, when someone perceives your intention to change them, their psychological defenses will

In China, under normal circumstances, ordinary and honest people are basically just "leeks"; honest and smart people are generally marginalized. Ordinary and simply malicious people are usually given important roles; those who are both malicious and smart are generally the ones making big money.

Those who are excited about the fundamentals say that the A-shares have exceeded 4100 points. In fact, raising the A-shares is to keep the system alive longer, not to make all participants profit. Relatively smart ordinary investors can make money in the A-shares easily. Wanting to make more money is difficult. The system will tell you which money is for making you profit and which money you are contributing to the system. Before the system turns hostile, it depends on how quickly you can run. But before fools come in on a large scale, we still have to wait a bit before the system turns hostil

After you invest in Wudao, your goal is no longer profit, but to stick to discipline. When desire exceeds risk control, discipline is thrown aside. Wishful expectations, frequent trading, and entering positions in areas with little advantage are all manifestations of desire outweighing risk management.

If someone breaks into your home now, sits on your bed, and does something you completely cannot accept, you would immediately stop them. You would say: Get out, this is my boundary, this is illegal, you have no right to do this. But why in real life, when facing many similarly obvious mistakes or even invasive behaviors, do we often not say “No”?
In China, this phenomenon is especially common. It’s not because Chinese people are inherently weak, but because we have long lived in a social structure that almost never systematically teaches “personal boundaries.” From childhood to adulthood, we

I used to copy from my deskmate during exams, and he never said anything—after all, it didn't really affect his grades. When the results came out, I started showing off everywhere, claiming I was far ahead, and I even casually remarked: “Look at my deskmate, he's clearly starting to decline. After all, I’m on the rise, making rapid progress, I can even overtake in curves, soon I’ll surpass him completely, dominate the field, and stay far ahead.”
Hearing this, my deskmate felt very upset. So during the next exam, he finally couldn’t bear it anymore, covering his paper with his hand to prevent m