Marriage built on scarcity and possession will only be repeatedly drained through conflict. Only by starting from inner awakening and approaching with a heart of non-attachment and non-striving can relationships truly stabilize; people's suffering does not lie in external circumstances but in inner dissatisfaction and attachment. External problems are often just projections of internal imbalance. The truly difficult thing to overcome is not the environment but the stubbornness and delusions within one's own mind. The mind is merely a tool, not the true "I." If dominated by the mind, one will limit oneself, attack oneself, and drain oneself. If guided by clear awareness, it can become a help for creation and expression. Pain is often a turning point. When a person stops seeking externally and begins to reflect inwardly, to discern true from false, and to let conscience take charge, the subjectivity will return. Only then can relationships and life break free from cycles of scarcity and opposition, moving toward true freedom and fulfillment.