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A thick skin and the ability to let go are the only ways to overcome all psychological illnesses. Anxiety comes from wanting to control too much, depression from wanting to succeed too badly, compulsiveness from wanting perfection, hypochondria from wanting eternal life, and social anxiety from craving acceptance.

When I decide to win, the whole world becomes a stepping stone. My feelings are incredibly important, and my decisions are unshakable. I am fine, and I deserve to be the protagonist. The most charming time for a person is when they don't care about everything and everyone around them, when they are indifferent to others' opinions and gazes. Not caring whether they have a sense of existence, always maintaining their own rhythm and pace. The meaning of life is not about seeking outward, but about building inward. Don't let others judge your qualifications; being obsessed with being loved is esse

Many parents are good at scaring children with the phrase “It will be miserable if you don’t study,” but they cannot clearly explain the beauty of learning itself. Today, the narrative around education is almost entirely reversed: not studying leads to failure, elimination, and no future. Learning is portrayed as a means to avoid falling, rather than a desirable way of life. This narrative seems realistic but is actually dangerous. Fear can only bring short-term compliance and cannot support long-term growth.
People who learn out of fear develop anxiety about failure, not curiosity about the w

There is no need to rush for answers. If you are brave enough, you should continue to carry the problem forward until the cause and effect naturally fall away. The way people solve problems is not by trying to find answers, but by bearing them until the day they can be resolved. Learn to tolerate ambiguity, allow things to remain in an unfinished state. The higher your tolerance for uncertainty, the easier it is to grasp the present moment, unaffected by external influences. Everything we consider serious, meaningful, or extremely important will eventually be forgotten or become less significa

If someone suddenly posts a lot of updates on social media like a maniac, it means that in real life, they have pretty good control over their emotions and words.

When temptation appears, the first reaction of the weak is to get carried away, while the first reaction of the strong is to assess where the risk lies.

Is it to be a happy pig or a suffering Socrates? This cliché question, according to many semi-awakened people's nature, is definitely answered with the latter. So they put in a lot of effort to broaden and deepen their knowledge. In the end, they all become suffering pigs. They lose the original calmness of a pig and also lack Socrates' clarity.

Why is it said that “a wicked person puts down the butcher's knife and immediately becomes a Buddha,” while good people must go through the ninety-nine and eighty-one hardships? Because what this phrase truly aims to express is a complete turning point after humans are endowed with all possibilities. A truly weighty choice must occur under the premise of “I can, but I choose not to.” If a person has no conditions to do evil, no resources to cross boundaries, and no opportunity to indulge, then their restraint is likely just helplessness. When someone has previously been able to do anything, tr

History always repeats itself. Emperor Wu of Han needed Li Guangli and Jiang Chong to take the blame. Emperor Xuanzong of Tang needed Yang Guozhong to take the blame. Emperor Gaozong of Song needed Qin Hui to take the blame. Emperor Shenzong of Ming Wanli needed Zhang Jing and Wang An to take the blame. Emperor Yongzheng needed Nian Gengyao to take the blame. Emperor Jiaqing needed Heshen to take the blame. Emperor Chongzhen needed Wei Zhongxian to take the blame. It is not treacherous officials who destroy the dynasty, but when the dynasty collapses, there must be treacherous officials create

How to avoid triggering others' jealousy? Many people believe that to prevent jealousy, they should "stay low-key," but being low-key does not equal humility. Instead, it can be easily interpreted as deliberately hiding one's advantages, which may provoke resentment. The truly effective approach is not to suppress yourself but to redefine the relational hierarchy between people, reducing the sense of competition.
First, turn yourself from a rival into a resource. Jealousy often stems from subconscious competitive relationships. If you can make the other person feel "you are useful to them," co

Many people, in order to fit in, pretend to be happy, pretend to be cruel, pretend to be kind, pretend to be mean, pretend to be cute, pretend to be pure, pretend to be arrogant—it's so pitiful. So, rather than going through the motions to fit in, it's better to walk your own path with integrity.

Some children are not truly cured by you, but are trained to no longer resist. When a society frequently uses “treatment, correction, intervention” to address children's suffering, it is actually rewriting structural problems into individual diseases. The so-called treatment for internet addiction, emotional disorders, attention issues, behavioral correction may seem fragmented, but they share the same logic: when children cannot adapt to the social order, the problem is blamed on the child.
As a result, children are isolated and forcibly compliant due to internet addiction; diagnosed, medicat

People who excel at trading pay great attention to underlying logic and natural laws. They are more content with money, viewing earning as part of their investment cognition and observation, or simply as a way to showcase their intelligence in the market while earning some extra money. That's why they perform well; for them, it’s just a game. They often take their work very seriously, and if they do it well, the results will be what they are supposed to be.

Kindness is contagious. In social psychology, there is a concept called the behavior transmission effect, where the kindness one receives is more likely to be transformed into kindness towards others. For example, if you are treated kindly by a driver today, you are more likely to help someone hold the door in the next moment; and the person you hold the door for will also have a better attitude towards the delivery person. Kindness thus quietly spreads between people. But if we amplify malice, we will find that it also follows this transmission effect. In a healthy society, more and more peop

We are living in an era where skills are rapidly depreciating. The emergence of AI has packaged, automated, and infinitely supplied a large number of skills that once required years of training. Ordinary skills have shifted from being "scarce abilities" to resources like infrastructure. This means that relying solely on mastering a specific skill to achieve long-term stable returns is becoming ineffective.
While skills are depreciating, the ceiling of human value has not lowered. What truly cannot be replaced are human judgment, aesthetics, and original thinking. AI can perform execution and g

People have nine non-competitions: not arguing with parents over words, not arguing with friends over face, not arguing with leaders over rank, not arguing with villains over reason, not arguing with partners over right or wrong, not arguing with relatives over wealth or poverty, not arguing with noble people over fame, not arguing with children over temper, and not arguing with oneself over gains and losses.

Discover a very good way of thinking called weakening wording. For example, change "I want to run five kilometers" to "go for a walk," change "I want to study" to "glance at some books," and change "train for abs" to "just move around casually." Don't assign too much significance to the tasks you need to do, and don't take them too seriously. Treat them as things you can do effortlessly and can complete casually. By weakening the resistance to starting, you'll find that doing them gradually becomes natural.

One of the characteristics of a slave: I can be mean to you, but others cannot be kind to you.

Once a man understands human nature, passes the emotional test, and enters the narrow gate, no one can hurt him anymore.

The true friend in life is yourself, the true enemy is also yourself, and the true benefactor is still yourself. If you can understand this truth one day earlier, you will achieve success one day earlier and find happiness one day earlier. The most wonderful thing in life is meeting the best version of yourself. And the greatest victory in life is successfully overcoming yourself. The greatest luck in life is learning to save yourself.