Morrisss

Don't be too obsessed with fleeting companionship. Don't hold onto hope for those who give up on you. Don't be humble enough to seek love that doesn't belong to you. Don't continue to like someone who doesn't like you. Love yourself first; if you can't feel love, turn around.

Be a reliable person, and your path will become wider and wider. Being dependable and trusted is a skill; someone who can be trusted can also handle things smoothly and successfully.

Those who trim themselves to fit everyone will eventually be left with only bones. However, people with people-pleasing personalities are usually quite resilient internally and have strong endurance. Once they achieve self-awareness and clarify their understanding of themselves, they can grow new flesh and blood on their bones and become their true selves.

Feelings are your first line of defense. They arrive before all evidence and are closer to the truth than all rationality. When something feels off, be honest with yourself. Because ignoring this feeling can make the returning boomerang hurt a lot.

Why do you always carry an uncontrollable sense of cowardice? You’re always hesitant, afraid to take action, overly worried about various risks and problems. Clearly, you know that your knowledge and abilities are not inferior to others, but when faced with real opportunities, your first reaction is still hesitation, retreat, and avoidance rather than seizing the moment. From a psychological perspective, this isn’t because you lack ambition; in fact, your inner self is very eager. Your timidity is actually your body’s way of choosing self-protection. Because there’s always a voice inside you s

The purpose of having children is to let them spend the money you haven't spent in your lifetime, not to let them endure the hardships you haven't endured in your lifetime. Children can't choose their parents, and parents need to have self-awareness, but some people just don't understand.

Low-level people are impossible to love you or to give love. Love is something only the exceptional among humans possess, because love is a form of giving, compassion, wisdom, and the ability to continuously produce. Therefore, the best person in the world is not someone you wait for, but someone you cultivate.

We all underestimate the weight of time. Treating people as if it's the first time is a very difficult thing. When making promises, people think they won't betray their words, but people do change. Interactions between people are like a sudden downpour, and only after a long time do the rain traces still remain on the glass.

True filial piety is not just obeying your parents. It is to prevent the shortcomings of your parents and ancestors from repeating themselves through you.

Emotional alienation creates a deeper loneliness than being alone. The core variable of loneliness is not the quantity of interpersonal interactions, but the quality of emotional resonance. When you are with someone who cannot resonate with you on an emotional level, you will fall into a state of "desolate companionship." The harm caused by this kind of relationship lies in its deprivation of our basic desire to be "seen," causing us to repeatedly experience disappointment in the process of trying to connect, ultimately living in a state of even deeper desolation among the crowd than when alon

The most ironic thing is this kind of family: they can't provide money, can't provide opportunities, only a bunch of rules. All that's left is family education, treating the child like a treasure and teaching them to follow rules to death, avoid trouble, be timid, and strictly teach them all about "how to suffer losses." And what’s the result? They don't dare to argue when they go out, they reflect first when they suffer grievances, and when conflicts arise, your first reaction is to "yield." The family raises you to be a obedient sheep, then pushes you into the wolf's den, and still expects t

What are the signs of becoming stronger? Not arguing with family members, understanding how to quietly accumulate wealth, avoiding verbal competitions, not complaining to others, being a good listener and speaking less, not spending money for the sake of face, knowing how to invest in your own mind, avoiding meaningless social interactions, being able to control your emotions, and knowing when to compromise for the sake of interests.

People are most easily hurt when they trust the most.

Whoever wants to control you needs you. Whoever wants to manipulate you can't do without you. Whoever you desire will enslave you. Whoever you pity, you will bear their fate. Whoever you think of, you will take on their karma. Don't be an unconscious recipient; only be a friend within the facts, and don't punish yourself with others' logic and mistakes.

From the perspective of the Dao, the relationship between people ends the moment they meet. Because before meeting, I have already waited for you for thousands of years.

In any relationship, you can give, but you should not feel like you're giving. You can be altruistic, but you shouldn't think you're being altruistic. You can be impressive, but you shouldn't emphasize how impressive you are. The highest state of knowledge is to realize that you don't know. Truly skilled people don't realize how talented they are. This is the Zen principle of "emptiness."

Those who look outward are just dreaming; those who look inward are truly awake. Only when your unconscious becomes conscious will it guide your life. Things that go unnoticed will become your destiny. No awakening is without pain.

When you find someone who is highly skilled but not very successful, that person must have an extremely high moral standard.

How significant is the influence of the family of origin?
Those who have experienced hunger spend their lives pursuing material possessions.
Those who have been neglected spend their lives wanting to be seen.
Those who have not been loved spend their lives trying to please others.
Those who have been controlled spend their lives escaping the past.
Those who have been suppressed spend their lives seeking affirmation.
Those who have been ignored spend their lives seeking security.
Those who have been scolded spend their lives trying to build confidence.
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