# Translation

Some people are very insecure when they're young. At school, when they see classmates recite texts fluently, but they themselves can't remember even after many attempts, it feels discouraging. But the truth is, most people struggle to memorize texts in childhood. Even those who do memorize often rely on rote learning without truly understanding what the text is about. Furthermore, children lack independent thinking at that age. During the memorization process, once a teacher applies pressure, people become tense, and the more tense they are, the harder it becomes to remember. Later in adulthood, you'll discover that some people can talk fluently on video, while you yourself freeze up in front of the camera.

But this often isn't because you can't express yourself. Rather, it's because of memories from childhood: the moment you say something wrong, you get criticized. So gradually, you become nervous and withdrawn when it comes to expressing yourself. You'll find that the real gap between people often isn't because you're not smart. It's because during the growth process, you lacked clear understanding, positive feedback, and continuous encouragement. Over time, this has shaped you into who you are now.