How men can turn their lives around in 2-3 years:

1. Don't think about women 24/7
2. Keep your mind focused on how to make money
3. Maintain a regular schedule: sleep at 10 PM, wake up at 6 AM
4. Reject ineffective socializing, stay disciplined
5. Set goals to buy a car in 1 year and a house in 3 years
6. Don't procrastinate; if you need to do something, do it immediately
7. Learn to save money—from 10,000 to 100,000 to 1,000,000
8. Keep your phone 10 meters away when sleeping
9. Rely on yourself for everything; don't always depend on others
10. Keep exercising, strengthen self-control, stay disciplined, and you will become better!