A real friend of mine, the most impressive man I met in 2025.

Here, let's call him Lao A, a post-00s, college diploma, from an ordinary family.

He's still paying off a mortgage, renovating,
Renting a house and paying rent,
Buying a car on installment,
Preparing for marriage, getting engaged,
Buying furniture,
Taking wedding photos,
Working part-time.

He has accumulated the debts of an ordinary person all in one period of his life—so impressive 👍

For ordinary people, any one of these things would typically be handled separately (setting aside wealthy people), but he seems to have made a certain decision 😂

If these things were thrown into a cancer support group, the group members would probably comfort him all day 😂