My 40-year-old cousin was introduced to a woman through a matchmaker. She was divorced and didn't ask for bride price.

He went to meet her with high expectations, but was shocked the moment they met.

The woman was holding a baby less than 1 year old, and behind her were 3 boys in their early teens—4 children total.

As soon as he walked in, she said she wanted to stay and live together. My cousin's family is ordinary—he only has a one-room farmhouse and doesn't earn much.

He was hoping to find a companion for a better life, but when he saw this situation, he hesitated on the spot.

The woman said she only needed food to eat and didn't want any bride price at all.

My cousin calculated that he couldn't afford the food, clothing, and schooling expenses for 4 children, so he refused right away.

The woman refused to leave, using the excuse that it was raining and dark, begging to stay one night.

My cousin's heart softened and he agreed. But the next day, she still wouldn't leave. She even cooked breakfast, hoping to change his mind.

My cousin was frustrated and helpless. He gave her 1,000 yuan to leave.

She still refused. Finally, with no other options, my cousin called the police to handle it, and only then did the woman leave with her children.

People in the village said my cousin doesn't know how to treasure this opportunity—wouldn't it be great to become a father directly? Others said the pressure of 4 children is too much; nobody could handle it.