Hao Nan, do you know why there are so many older single women now?

Because some of them are not trying to find a partner, but trying to escape poverty.
You want to find a partner, but they want to escape poverty.
You want to settle down, but they want to take over the family.
You treat her as a treasure, but she treats you like a credit card debt.
Talking to them, as you chat, she gets hungry, her phone breaks, she has no clothes to wear, no cosmetics left, her rent is due, her grandfather is sick, her grandmother is hospitalized, her mother was in a car accident.
It makes it seem like you are guilty, as if you have left her with nothing, broken family, and ruined lives.
Is it really like that?