What is a top expert: 1. Do not pity anyone, do not trust anyone, do not deeply associate with anyone, do not complain to anyone, can hide your weaknesses, stay calm, do not boast, do not be arrogant, think carefully, be confused over trivial matters, be decisive over major issues. See through things without revealing, have a peaceful and calm heart, come and go alone, do not need to be surrounded by followers or flattered. 2. True sense of security comes from having money in your pocket. Others respect you not because you are friendly, but because you are strong. Fools are emotional, experts are利益化. 3. Reject ineffective social interactions; associating with poor or lower-tier people is ineffective socializing. 4. Any relationship, in the end, is just a meeting; those with intentions will inevitably be burdened, those without intentions, it doesn't matter. Love is voluntary, no talk of owed favors. 5. Do not have any expectations of anyone, including parents, spouses, siblings, children. The greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment. Without expectations, there is no disappointment. 6. Strengthen yourself; it is the ultimate answer to all problems. You get sick because your physique is not strong enough. You are poor because your thinking is not strong enough. 7. People who do not do well are generally childish in mind, lacking cultivated thinking, process thinking, time thinking, and long-term thinking. Therefore, they tend to be anxious, worried, pessimistic, desperate, extreme, and easily get cut by others. When others say a project can make quick money, they tend to believe it. 8. Keep your emotions stable often, unaffected by bad people or bad things; the strong are calm as water, the weak are irritable and quick to anger. 9. All resources in the world are yours. You can use all the resources in the world. Everything that is not yours can be used for you. Understand this sentence, and you will be able to do anything. 10. If it does not involve your own interests, do not refute others; let them speak and perform. 11. If you can remain calm despite having worries, that is your pattern. If you have worries but pretend to be indifferent, that is your experience. The most foolish act in the world is to argue with others. 12. Do not sympathize with your family and relatives; always pretend to be poor in front of them to maintain their vanity. 13. Offending a few people, making a few mistakes, is not that terrible; living a life of compromise and caution is the most frightening. 14. Do not attach too much importance to interpersonal relationships; you can live well without friends. 15. Except for illness, all the pain you feel is brought by your values, not real existence. Once your heart is peaceful, the outside world becomes silent. 16. Whether you marry or not, you are living alone; as long as you seek reliance externally, you will inevitably suffer pain.